Tum Gareeb Isliye Nahi Ho Kyunki Tum Kam Kamate Ho

 

Kabhi aisa hua hai?

Mahine ki starting me lagta hai is baar paise sambhal kar kharch karunga.

Phir dheere dheere normal chhote chhote kharche start hote hain.

Kabhi bahar ka khaana.
Kabhi online order.
Kabhi sirf itna hi to hai

Aur phir achanak ek din account balance dekhkar lagta hai:

Yaar… paise gaye kahan?

 

Aur ajeeb baat pata hai kya hai?

Bahut baar hume yaad bhi nahi hota humne paise kis cheez par uda diye.

Kyuki kharcha ek baar me nahi hota.

Dheere dheere hota hai.

Aur shayad isi wajah se dangerous bhi hota hai.

 

Pehle mujhe lagta tha problem simple hai.

Bas income kam hai.

Aur honestly shayad har kisi ko life ke kisi point par ye lagta hai.

Ki:

Bas thode aur paise aa jaye
Phir sab thik ho jayega.

Par fir maine ek cheez notice ki.

Jitne paise badhte gaye
Utne hi naye kharche normal lagne lage.

Pehle 500 kharch karne se pehle 2 baar sochte the.
Ab kabhi kabhi 2000 bhi bada amount feel nahi hota.

Aur ye change itna slowly hota hai
ki pata bhi nahi chalta.

 

Sach bolu?

Aaj paise kharch karna bahut easy ho gaya hai.

Bas phone nikalo.
UPI karo.
Payment done.

Kabhi kabhi to payment karne ke 5 minute baad yaad bhi nahi rehta paise kis cheez par gaye.

Pehle cash me paise nikalte waqt thoda feel hota tha.

Ab bas ek sound aata hai:

Payment successful.

Aur baat khatam.

 

Mere saath ek chij  bahut hoti thi.

Mood off ho…
ya kaam karne ka mann na ho

To bina reason shopping apps khol leta tha.

Kuch specific lena nahi hota tha.

Bas scroll karna.

Aur fir achanak koi cheez us moment “important” lagne lagti.

Us waqt excitement milti thi.

Par 2 din baad wahi cheez normal ho jaati.

Fir kuch aur chahiye hota.

 

Shayad isi liye bahut log paise nahi
Feeling spend kar rahe hote hain.

Stress ho → order.
Bore ho → shopping.
Mood off ho → kuch kha lo.

Aur dheere dheere spending zarurat nahi rehti

Habit ban jaati hai.

 

Ek aur cheez jo maine notice ki:

Jitna zyada social media consume karo
Utna zyada lagta hai tumhare paas kam hai.

Roz kisi ka better lifestyle.
Better phone.
Better room.
Better life.

Aur unknowingly comparison start ho jaata hai.

Phir tum need ke liye nahi
Feel karne ke liye kharch karte ho.

 

Ek chhoti si habit ne mujhe genuinely help ki.

Jab bhi kuch buy karne ka mann karta

Main instantly payment nahi karta tha.

Bas thodi der wait.

Aur surprisingly…
Bahut si cheeze thodi der baad utni important lagti hi nahi thi.

Tab samajh aaya:

Har cheez jo us moment “chahiye” lagti hai
Wo sach me zaruri nahi hoti.

 

Paise kamana important hai.

Bahut important hai.

Par kabhi kabhi problem sirf earning ki nahi hoti.

Kabhi kabhi problem bas itni si hoti hai:

Paise aa rahe hote hain
Par hum bina soche unhe dheere dheere leak kar rahe hote hain.